Chips Chilly or Aloo Dum? What kind of Nepali Are You & Does it Matter?
The standard food ordering for any Nepali consists of momo, some kind of chilli and a fried starch.
Hence, on one particular day just like most times, my friends and I ensued in the standard proceedings of ordering food
2. Chips Chilli
3. Chicke….fooled you, we decided to go with something a little different and went with Veg fried rice this time. Everyone likes change.
But today as we were going with standard checklist of food and about to wrap up a friend from the corner yelled out ” Dai euta aloo dum”. We all looked at him kind of amused by this, although a not so strange addition to the usual ordering it rather a small deviation from the standard.
If you don’t know by now my love for food is endless and hence my friends and I welcome this addition with open arms.
Is the comparison making you hungry? Okay. Okay. I will get to the point.
Now, in life a friend may not take the path of aloo dum but instead his/her difference in choice could be in the life he leads, the outfit she wears and the way they live.
While Aloo dum is welcoming, him embracing is sexuality or passion may not be.
You may not understand it or find his way of life worthy of acceptance.
And, while the potato chilli or aloo chilli debate is not as debatable, how someone lives their life
certainly becomes one.
For generaaaaaationnnnnsss we have heard insert annoying aunty voice “What will people think?” and diligently obliged to the unforeseen rules and costs of just being ourselves.
The cost ? It can range from back handed comments to honor killing. Killing just because the society fails to accept or understand their choices.
And although acceptance and respect something all of us deserve it becomes the hardest to give and what ensues as a result? Judgement.
Judgement we pass on the good decision and the bad.
On the passionates and the passives
On the dreamers, the non-dreamers and the doers
On the living and the dead
We let judgement take over and go after those who tried loaded mash potato instead of the chips chilly or even those who do not like potatoes at ( Yes, there are people who do not like potatoes. I know. Unbelievable).
The point here is, potatoes on the side or no potatoes at all when judging someone for their food sounds unusual, why doesn’t judging someone who is simply trying to do their best life?
And Its finally here!! I thought a lot about what I would want my website launch to be like, should it be this huge thing. Should I post relentlessly on social media?
Go hard or Go home.I am going home. So much more comfort there.So my life took a quick 180 turn (are you not glad I didn’t say 360
I have written many posts on passion or the rather on the redundant and over used titles of “Do what you love”.